Full time teacher, Part time JKR

Hmmm.....merujuk kepada gambar di atas(cewahhh.....ayat baik punya)..kuikuikuikui.....
Ni lah aktiviti aku lepas waktu persekolahan sepanjang thn nih....huahuahuahuahua....
Buat jalan. Gali lobang tampal lobang....
Sampai bile la nk berakhir...
Kalo kt Semenanjung aku tgk segala jenis mat Bangla n mat Indon je keje buat2 jalan nih...kat sini??? sendiri mau ingt la,...huhu

ATHMATIC PROBLEM~~again

Ingt lg x post yg menyelitkan cerite xtvt aku mase cuti 3 mggu yg lalu?? Ak ade ckp salah 1 xtvt aku ialah mengecat bilik. N the result is.....effect drpd xtvt mengecat tu....i got my historical athmatic prob back!!! owh..no..no..........

Td baru je balik dr klinik. Ak ckp kt doktor....aku dh batuk within 1 month ++. Then doc tu tnye aku ape last xtvt yg aku buat? Then ak ckp aku ade mengemas rmh, cat bilik, buat jalan...Then dok tu tanye since when ak batuk ni? Ak ckp since cuti sek yg 3 mggu.....obviously after painting la. Doc tnye lg either ak ade athmatic probs before or is there's any weirdness sign when i cough?? Ak mmg ade athmatic prob mase kecil tp dh dekat 10 thn ak bebas dr prob tu...but then doc tu ckp....it is sign of athmatic prob. Again??? Sigh~~N doc ckp she believe that bau2 yg kuar dr cat tu membuat kan allergen aku aktif semula. Itu yg membuat kan bronkiol aku mengecut n susah nk bernafas. Then batuk2...so terjadila ASMA~~

Aiyarkk.....aku dh experienced athmatic prob ni since aku 1 1/2 yrs old lg. Sgt sengsara. Then it was stop when i'm 12. But, doc yg rawat ak dulu ade ckp, when it stopped that doesn't mean it'll stop forever. It'll be back again disebabkan bende2 yg mcm ni la. So, ak terpaksela menelan balik pil2 asma yg akan membuatkan ak menggigil 1 badan n khayal spjg hari....

DID I MARRIED A RIGHT PERSON??

his is a very good article. Those who are still single may learn something
from here...
Those who are already married may take it as a guideline to improve your
marriage & relationship ...

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How
do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It
depends. Is that your husband?"
In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"
Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing
on your mind.

Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your
spouse / partner . You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked
their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behaviour/habit).
Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely
natural and spontaneous experience.
You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love...
Because it's happening TO YOU .

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the
imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there;
doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU .
Falling in love is easy . It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But
after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades.
It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls
become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it
happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies , instead of being cute, drive
you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think
about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the
initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry
subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the
right person?"

And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had,
you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.

This is when marriages breakdown . People blame their spouse for their
unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfilment.

Extramarital fulfilment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the
most obvious.

But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or
abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies
within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.


And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few
years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S
LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just
happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in
and day out. That's why we have the __expression "the labour of love."
Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes
WISDOM . You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things
you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are
also laws for relationships.

Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger,
certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger.

It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results
are predictable... you can "make" love .

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling .

Remember this always :
"God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you
let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go."

Kan Dah Kate!!

Huh, seperti yang kujangka. Minggu lepas aku terpakse menapak lg nk balik sek. kali ni air lebih dlm lg. Paras peha kau!!! Dahla brg byk n berat lg...Aduyaiiii....Kali ni mmg seminggu kete Erza ditinggalkan kt rumah pjg, even x banjir lg tp jalan semakin licin especially kt area berbukit. Takut lor licin2 nih. Huhuhuhu..

See, air tu paras peha aku. Peerghhhh...mmg mcm pelarian dh aku rase. Tp nk wat cmne...sabo jelah....bertahan!!!

Kete x lepas nk lalu. Nak xnk kenela menapak!!! hahahaha. GET USED TO IT!!


p/s: hopefully minggu ni xdelah menapak lg....haruuuuuu

7 bulan sudah...

Hmm...hari ni genap 7 bulan usia pertunangan ak n En. Tunang. Sekejap je rase mase berlalu. Dan skrg, aku menghitung hari utk disatukan bersama En. Tunang yang mane x sampai 2 bln dr skrg akan bertukar menjadi En. Hubby, InsyaAllah. Setelah dihitung, masih ade 55 hari lg utk ak berstatus bujang. Wah, pejam celik pejam celik je tuh. Persoalannya; ADAKAH AK SUDAH BERSEDIA???. Bersedia utk menggalas tugas seorg isteri. Mampukah ak memberikan khidmat yg terbaik utk suami. Mampukah ak menjadi isteri yg baik? Persoalan tu mmg sentiase berlegar dlm kepala otak nih. Tgk org lain kawen rileks je. Mcm senang je mengendalikan rumah tangge. Hrp2 sumenye berjalan dgn baik.

Setakat hari ni keluarge En. Tunang menerima kehadiran ak dgn baik sekali. Layanan mereka sentiase mesra. Ak mengharapkan semuanye berkekalan sehingga aku sah menjadi isteri sekaligus menjadi sebahagian dr keluarge mereka. Walaupon kadangkala aku merasa janggal berada di kalangan mereka. En. Tunang mmg rapat sgt dgn keluarge, bukan shj keluarge kecil nye malah keluarge besar termasuk keluarge makcik, pakcik n cousin2 die.

En. Tunang;

"Sy mengharapkan yg terbaik utk kite berdua dunia n akhirat. Terima sy seadenye n sayangi sy selamanye.Sy sgt sygkn awak n sy mendoakan agar awk sentiase ade di sisi sy dlm ape jua keadaan. Smoge kite dpt membina sebuah KELUARGE yg sebenarnye"

Spontaneous Conversation (Aku N Pupil)

1. One of my student,(translation dr B.Iban) "Cikgu, bapak saya tido mcm b**i". Ak tkejut n jwb,"Knape ckp mcm tu Winnie?". Die balas balik,"Ye la, time tido mulut die ade bunyi2....krooh krooh krooh..mcm b**i la". Ak pon jwb,"itu name nye berdengkur Winnie". Tp xbole nk ckp ape la, no offended...kat sini 'bende' tu mmg t...ernakan dorg. Lau jln2 ke tepi pagar sek aku pon bole nampak bende tu.huhu

2. "Siape yg sukarela nk meninggal dunia?"...dlm ramai2 murid tu ade sorg girl yg angkat tgn. Sume org pelik. "Kamu sukarela nk meninggal dunia?" Die dgn selambe jwb..." Yela cikgu, kan best meninggalkan dunie pegi jalan kt tempat lain (planet lain)"...hahahaha.....aku gelak guling2.

3. One of my student xde sederet gigi depan. bukan tercabut tp gigi die mmg tggl tunggul kt gusi jek. Adela dlm 4 btg mcm tu. Then i compared gigi die dgn budak yg sorg lg yg ade gigi cantik, puteh n bersih. Aku tnye, "Mane pegi gigi depan kamu Celeshia? Tgk gigi Shelly, cantek jek". Die jwb," Gigi saya semua tumbuh ke at...as cikgu, tidak tumbuh ke bawah."

4. Ak mengedarkan surat jemputan sambutan hari guru kpd parents melalui murid, "surat ni mesti beri pd ibu or ayah kamu. Cikgu jemput dtg mjlis smbutan Hari Guru". Sehari selepas, sorg ibu bercerita,"cikgu nk tahu ape yg Atan beritahu saya bile cikgu beri surat tu? Die ckp, mak cikgu beri surat ajak mak pegi Fun Fair kt Sibu...". Terbeliak biji mate aku....hahaha.

Cerite Tertangguh 4 (Cuti Sem 3 Minggu)

Cuti pertengahan sem punye cerite...hehehe. The story is, aku cuti lame, 3 minggu. Sepatutnye 2 minggu jek. Tp seminggu tu cuti Gawai. Lamela, syukur sgt dpt cuti lame mcm tu sbb aku mmg ade byk keje nk buat utk prepoaration KAWEN!!!!!!!!. I'm going to marry En. Tunang. Huhuhuhu. So, dgn adenye kesempatan tu mmg setiap saat tu ak gunekan sebaik-baiknye. Minggu pertama adalah utk mengemas bilik (mengosongkan bilik, cat bilik). Nsb baik ade anak buah ak yg sulung tu nk menolong. Tq abg!!!

Minggu kedua adalah minggu menyetelkan hantaran. Brg2 hantaran n segala hiasan mmg aku dh beli mase cuti bln 3. Since aku decide nk create n decorate hantaran aku sendiri, aku pun beruasaha lah mencari sumber n bahan rujukan. Walaupun mendapat byk tentangan esp dr my aunties (dorg suh aku tempah jek sbb hanatarn aku byk ,11 dulang), aku nekad gk buat sendiri. Aku akan buktikan. YEAH!!! Seb bek ade kakak ipar yg sgt membantu. Die la bwk g rmh kwn die utk ajar wat bunge dulang n ajar how to decorate dulang segala la. Yes, setel. Balik rumah tggl buat jek. Syukur!!!

Minggu ke-3, adalah minggu membawa mak n ayah pg segale jenis kedai utk carik brg2 yg diperlukan utk majlis nnt. Pg Nilai 3 carik set buffet. G crik set pinggan n cawan melamin. Mak ckp senang org nk gune, x pecah. Minggu ni jugak g tempah kad kawen, g beli perabot bilik, g amik langsir n baju yg dh siap (tempah mase bln 3 dulu) n tempah baju raye. WAJIB ok.

Penuh cuti ak dgn aktiviti. Ak balik S'wak dgn perasaan yg sedikit release la sbb sume yg pntg2 dh setel. Hantaran dh siap, bilik dh siap, baju utk nikah dh siap. Cume ade beberapa item je masih blom setel. First, manik baju x siap lg, kasut blom beli, tudung pon blom beli. Xpe, itu minor things. Sebelum nikah bln 9 nnt ade mase lg seminggu utk setelkan.....

Cerite tertangguh 3 (banjir)

Kisah ni plak berlaku bile balik dr Bintulu. Ape yg menanti aku kat sekolah??? Ni die.....BANJIR.
Ak plg susah hati bile part banjir2 ni, confirn xdpt bwk kete masuk n terpakse MENAPAK sejauh 2 km lor....aiyarkkkkk..


Ni la rupenye jalan ke sek aku. Jln tanah merah tp ade part2 yg berturap tp mcm ni la jdnye. Tanah paye, turap cemane pon rosak gk.....jgn xcaye, lubang tempat air bertakung tu amatlah dalam sehingge boleh menyeret bwh kete...lau Viva confirm kene la..


Jalan ni nampak mcm cantek sket kan...sekadar mengaburi mate...hahahaha....kt sini jek dh mule ade kesan2 air naik dh....tp ni minor..ade yg lg besar di hadapan sane...TUNGGU!!!!


Tu die....dh sampai ke black area.....sekali air bah sekali jalan berubah...kuikuikui.....kt sini lau air naik atas jalan ade sampai paras peha....sebelum redah ngn kete, kene cek ketinggian air dulu...


Setelah di cek, air td agak dalam ketinggiannye, so kitorg x berani nk bwk kete masuk redah air tu. Takut kete stuck lg haru punye cerite. Mane nk cekau workshop kt situ. Kitorg decide (terpakse sebenarnye) utk meredah air tu n menapak jalan ke sek. Adoyaiiii, dhla brg byk, konpem kene tggl kt kete n bwk brg2 yg penting such as lappy n brg2 basah. Kete terpakse ditinggalkan di kaw rumah pjg berhampiran.

Uh, masih mampu tersenyum nampaknye aku...padahal bdn dah kepenatan travel dr Bintulu, kene menapak lg, bwk brg lg...adoyaiiiii....sabar je la.

Cerite Tertangguh 2 (Bintulu)

Here I come Bintulu. Since ak da plan Cuti-cuti Malaysia sementara ade kesempatan kt bumi Sarawak nih, mane yg sempat aku try la jejakkan kaki. Lepas Kuching ak ke Bintulu plak. Bintulu ni xdela sejauh Kuching dr Sibu ni. Dlm 3 jam jek perjalanan. Mujur ade kereta, senang sket nk gerak.

So, what can I say about Bintulu. 1 bandar yg happening n lg best dr bandar Sibu la of course. Senang carik tempat makan yg halal, ade laut, ade tmn rekreasi, ad tempat lepak yg best, mcm ramaila org Melayu yg aku jumpe. Gerak hari Sabtu pg then balik hari Ahad tghari. Pergerakan agak terbatas sbb hujan.



Ni tempat pertama yg kitorg pg. Taman Negara Similajau. Kt situ adela laut, tempat wat camping, tempat nk hiking....mmg jauhla ke dalam lg. Tp kitorg g xsampai separuh jalan pon, itupon dh rase penat sgt..


Sepatutnye sampai2 je kene daftar kt opis dulu, tp kitorg ni pelancong tegar...hahahaha...redah kasi pecah.


Ni kt tmn rekreasi, kt dlm tu adalah binatang2. xdpt masuk sbb hujan renyai2...amik gamba kt depan jek.


Ni pantai Tg Batu. Mmg byk batu kt situ. Hehehehehe....sempatla tgk sunset..perghhhh, cantek.


Lihatlah dunia...betape ringannye aku.......hahahaha

Before balik sggh amik gambar kt depan Wisma Bintulu...hehehehehe...

Cerite Tertangguh 1

haaa....cerite ni dh lame simpan. Ak g jenjalan kt Kuching. Nek kete from Sibu. Almost 7 hrs on the road. Lau kt Semenanjung 7 hrs tu dr N9 sampai Kedah gamaknye. Mmg dh lame berniat nk g jenjalan kt Kuching. Last year mmg dh g tp sbb xde kenderaan xdptla nk jln sgt. This year, kebetulan 1 of my fren da beli kete so kitorg pon cuti cuti M'sia la.


Ni antara tempat yg wajib dikunjungi la. Serikin.... hehehehe...wah syurga membeli belah. Kat sini je ak dh tabur RM ratus2 wei....bukan beli apepon.. Beli telekung utk mak, kakak ipar, anak buah, kain batik n kain pelikat jek. Geram aku, telekung yg sulam2 tu bole dpt RM50 jek kt sini. Dgn senang hati je aku tabur RM...hahaha


Sorryla, line xbrape bagus nk upload gambar byk2. Tu yg gamabr sume berterabur tu. Susah jgk nk gune broadband ni ha. Ni mlm pertama kt sane. K.Lin (kwn yg same ngajar kt sek, die org Kuching) belanje mkn steamboat n bbq...perghhh......kambing grill....


Ni kt poultry.....byk gilker pasu n cantek2 sumenye...geram ak. Konon2 nk la crik pasu yg murah2 so bole la buat goodies time kawen nnt....tp hmmmm.....plg murah bole dpt pon RM2 pasu yg kecik2 tu......lau beli byk, byk gk duit nye kan...so, cancel. Lau dpt sebijik RM0.50, mmg aku rembat jek...hahaha

Sebagai bukti aku sampai kt Kuching sbb kt sane jek ade roundabout ngn patung kucing nih

Ni menu wajib yg mesti mkn kt sane. Nasi ayam penyet, pecal lele, udang penyet n segala jenis penyet la. Tp pecal lele tu mmg buat ak nk mkn selalu la. Pecal lele tu ikan keli goreng berempah.

Ni kt Kg Budaya. kt situ adela rumah2 tradisional kaum2 di S'wak. Yg belakang ak tu rmh Bidayuh. Mahal woooo....sekali masuk je RM60......kalo org tempatan murah sket.....isk, kate 1 M'sia tp kenape ade perbezaan harga utk org luar S'wak...??


Tu je la pics yg dpt di upload...ade byk lg nk upload tp memandangkan broadband yg seperti hidup segan mati xmahu ni....aku rase sakit hati plak nk tggu......(ni la puncenye aku malas nk post n3 baru sebenarnye). HAHAHAHA....Alasan.....

Comeback!!!

Nampaknye ade yg sudah menegur ak sbb lame x update rmh ni. Da mcm rmh x berpenghuni....Maafkan ak....kekangan waktu dan sedikit kemalasan melanda diri. Crite baru memang melimpah ruah.....hati ni meronta-ronta nk share story ngn org2 di luar sane...tp mengapa KEMALASAN ini begitu menghantui diri...???Ak akan cube update balik semua cerite yg tertunggak...harharhar...walopon dh lame berlalu, xpe...layan je...